Why is it so hard to find a soulmate?
Most of us are actually searching for egomates instead. We place the most limited
and unloving aspect of our minds in charge of our search for love, and
then wonder why we aren’t succeeding. To the degree that we identify
with this false sense of self, and operate on the basis of its limited point
of view, we aren’t looking for someone to love so much as recruiting
fellow actors to take on supporting roles in a favorite melodrama.